Pastor Enoch Boamah recently took to Facebook to offer a refreshing perspective on resolving online conflicts, asking fellow Christians to “Call each other and debate it out with honor”, amidst digital disputes.
Pastor Enoch began his reflection by stating, “I have noticed that sometimes the things we argue about online are resolved when we speak in person.” This insight underscores a critical aspect of communication that is often lost in the anonymous and sometimes confrontational nature of online interactions. He noted that the comment sections of social media can be filled with diverse, and sometimes conflicting, views influenced by factors beyond our control.
The pastor’s experience suggests that face-to-face discussions often lead to greater understanding. “Most often than not, we usually get on the same page when we speak in person, especially because of proper context and an understanding of background stories,” he shared.
Pastor Enoch further elaborated on the principle that should guide such interactions. “I am of the view that Christians can disagree, especially on different biblical stances, but our desire to love should be greater than our desire to be right.” His message is clear: while it’s natural to have differing opinions, particularly on complex biblical interpretations, the fundamental Christian calling is to prioritize love and respect over the need to win arguments.
In light of this, his advice is both practical: “When you think it gets too heated online, call each other and debate it out with honor and decorum.” By suggesting a shift from digital debates to respectful, in-person conversations, Pastor Enoch advocates for a return to thoughtful dialogue. This approach not only helps to resolve conflicts more effectively but also fosters stronger, more empathetic relationships.
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Pastor Enoch’s message is a valuable reminder of the importance of human connection in resolving disagreements. By choosing to debate with honor and engaging in personal conversations, we can bridge gaps, find common ground, and build a more compassionate community.